Key 1: Poverty

page 23 in the Starting Over Guide

The journey of Starting Over begins where pride ends. Key 1, Poverty, isn’t about lacking material things. It’s about recognizing the limits of our own strength. It’s the moment we stop pretending and admit, with honesty, that we can’t keep living this way. It’s a surrender of ego, not of dignity. This kind of poverty is freeing, because it opens us up to real change.

“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”
— Matthew 5:3

Reflection Prompts

Take time to write, reflect, or sit with these questions. You can answer privately or share in the comments below.

  • In what ways have I been trying to manage everything on my own?
  • What feels out of control in my life right now and how have I responded to it?
  • What would it mean to admit I need help, not as a weakness but as a doorway to change?
  • Can I name one area where I’m ready to let go of control?

Closing Notes

The foundation of recovery isn’t built on willpower, it’s built on humility. When you’re ready to stop holding it all together, you begin to make space for something stronger to be built in its place.